Signs Your Loved One Needs Rehab: A Checklist for Families

Worried about a loved one’s substance use? Learn the 10 key signs they need rehab, how to approach them, and where to find help.

If you’re worried a loved one is struggling with addiction, you’re not alone. Over 21 million Americans need treatment for substance use, but only 10% receive it (SAMHSA). Recognizing the signs early can save their life. This checklist, backed by addiction experts, will help you determine if rehab is the next step—and how to take action.

1. Physical Signs They Need Rehab

Unexplained weight loss or gain
Bloodshot eyes, dilated pupils, or frequent nosebleeds
Slurred speech, tremors, or poor coordination
Neglecting personal hygiene

What to Do:

Document changes over time.
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2. Behavioral Red Flags

Secretive behavior: Hiding substances, lying about whereabouts.
Financial problems: Borrowing money, selling possessions.
Legal issues: DUIs, arrests, or fines.
Neglecting responsibilities: Missing work, school, or family events.

Stat: 60% of people in rehab lost a job due to addiction (NIDA).

3. Emotional and Mental Health Warning Signs

Mood swings: Sudden anger, irritability, or depression.
Isolation: Withdrawing from friends and family.
Defensiveness: Denying problems or blaming others.

Pro Tip: Approach them calmly. “I’ve noticed you seem down lately. Can we talk?”

4. Health Risks of Delaying Rehab

Overdose: 70% of drug-related deaths involve opioids (CDC).
Organ damage: Liver failure, heart disease, or brain damage.
Mental health decline: Increased risk of anxiety, depression, or suicide.

Action: Check coverage for rehab.

5. How to Talk to Them About Rehab

Do:
- Choose a calm, private time.
- Use “I” statements. “I’m worried about your health.”
- Offer solutions. “I found a rehab center that can help.”
Don’t:
- Accuse or shame. “You’re ruining your life!”
- Enable. “I’ll bail you out one more time.”

Script:

“I love you, and I’m scared. I found a place that can help—let’s call them together.”

6. When to Stage an Intervention

If they refuse help despite clear signs, it’s time for an intervention.

Steps:
1. Hire a certified interventionist.
2. Gather close family and friends.
3. Present treatment options.
Resource: Find an intervention specialist near you.

7. What to Look for in a Rehab Center

Accreditation: JCAHO or SAMHSA-certified.
Treatment types: Inpatient, outpatient, or detox.
Aftercare: Relapse prevention programs.

Search Tip: Use our Sobriety Clinic Directory to filter by location, insurance, and services.

8. State-by-State Rehab Resources

California: Free assessments via the CA Dept of Health.
Texas: State-funded rehab for low-income residents.
New York: 24/7 helpline: 1-888-999-1941.

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Important Disclaimer

The Sober Standard provides this information for educational purposes only. We do not diagnose or guarantee treatment outcomes.

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